Found an un identified authors write up on falling in love ..’

Read this post and my thoughts below it- #In14Ways

Things you should know before falling in love with me:

1. I have a hard time opening myself up to people, and in the past, it’s ruined relationships for me.

2. I’m not a morning person at all, it’s best if you keep your distance until I’m completely awake.

3. I am honest, but I know at times I can be too honest and it’s never my intention to hurt your feelings, I just don’t think before I say things.

4. There are days when it’s just too much to get out of bed, and on days like those just know it’s not you, it’s never because of you.

5. I have so much love to give but I don’t know how.

6. I can get angry very quick and it can last for the whole day. And even if you weren’t the cause for my anger, stay away. You can’t reason with me when I’m like that.

7. I never want you to think I need you. I don’t, I can do all of this alone and be perfectly fine.

8. I’m not your property I am my own person and if you ever think you can cage me up, you’ve never been more wrong in your life.

9. I’m a free Spirit and Love doing things that excite my soul. So be ready to go out of your comfort zone.

10. I sing in the car and you should too.

11. I’m a movie fanatic, I like anything that can make me feel something.

12. I can be the warmest person you’ve ever met, or I can be the coldest. It all depends on the type of person you are.

13. I feel things deeper than most and that’s why my emotions are always under lock and key.

14. If I ever lose the fire in my eyes, don’t leave, just take me to bed and turn off all the lights, I’m just in my head, and that’s a place you never want to see.

15. I have a dark soul that sometimes makes me view the glass at half empty instead of half full.

16. I’ll never give you a reason to cheat on me. And if you do, you should just pack your shit and go. No explanation just leave.

17. I have many sides to me, each one being more complex than the last. But just know, no ones stayed long enough to see them all.

18. If you do leave because I’m something you can’t handle. I won’t be mad or hurt. Like i said before, I don’t need you.

19. If you ever see me cry, don’t say anything just pick me up and hold me.

20. I am not something you can fix and mold into something else. If you come into my life thinking that, you’re going to leave worse off than me.

21. I don’t like beating around the bush. It takes too much time.

22. I get hot very easily and when I am hot I’m a ticking time bomb that you don’t want to see blow.

23. Don’t put your hand on my throat if you don’t want what comes after.

24. When I’m on my period I can be very unpredictable and I’m sorry for whatever happens.

25. I know I come off as very independent and if that intimidates you then you should walk away now.

26. I’m looking for someone who will challenge me, someone who has the same goals as me and will do whatever to reach them. Someone who I can take on the world with.

27. I lose interest very easily and if you can’t keep me on my toes then we won’t last long at all.

28. I never ask for help, but I won’t say no if you give it. It’s my pride and it’s a bitch.

29. Your happiness is key to me. And mine should be the same to you.

30. There is never a reason to lie to me, I’m very understanding. I take trust very seriously and if you lie to me all my trust for you is gone.

I know I am complicated and have a lot of layers to me, but believe me when I say, whoever gets past my walls and gets me, they’re the luckiest person because I have a lot to give. – k.L.k

– Author Unknown

I love 16. But 19. was a paradox for me on the author”.

An eye opener ..’

“One passive aggressive human being I will not want to date.

I admire the sense of self worth but hurt bad with revolving walls arround it as a fortress.

Unfortunately, in a relationship, it’s about two becoming one, not two becoming 2 or 3 or more, save their offsprings.

Who ever I fall in love with would be an organic match regardless of the baggages there or not – cuz they wont matter if we were in love.

That’s life in general. You don’t have to be intimate with anyone to experience this connection. You can get sex anywhere if you so desire to live your flesh free willingly. Personally, the latter is not my style. I believe in love and in the one – not players like dogs looking for pots to piss in. Love is friendship.

Jesus is the love of my life. I tell him everything wrong about me and he loves me still.

Relationships based on love surpasses all human undersanding. They can’t figure it out.

Those are my thoughts. What are yours?”.

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with ‘Bad Religion’ – And The Institution (Part 5) by Aremuorin

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Think, Ask, Believe, Receive ..’ – Anthony Everest

No one is perfect. Let no one make you feel small. It’s only by Grace that we enter, and not by own self righteousnesses. God’s love is everlasting, to everlasting; revealed through some amazing people, who were here before us – like Jesus. His legacy, thou – is matchless – and finite, on a personal note. #HaveYouForgotten #BadReligion #WhoAmIToJudge. 

As I write, these words, I feel an overwhelming, warmth; of love from her, retrospectively, towards our Lord Jesus – and vice versa. Jesus is dope! I could only imagine how deep and tight they were – till the bitter end. And I believe, that bond, was a spiritual bond. A sacred bond. A self fulling prophecy – of the bride and her Groom.

Mary Magdalene – was the real world – who needed redemption. It’s her testimony that validates Christ’s mission of redemption and reconciliation of men back to God. Those are the kind of people you should engage – more necessarily, lovingly – in truth; to share the love and plan of the almighty, for restoration, cohesion and unity. Everybody is a sinner and convicted under Gods Laws. No one measures up, save the Graces God showers – un end.

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I’m stirred and overcome with emotion; to fathom; that love, of a saviour, who came – to bare it all, laying it all down on the cross – for mare mortals and whores like Mary Magdalene. Thank You Jesus ..’  The HOLY SPIRIT, thou, is key. The Holy Spirit breaks it all down. Makes it all, cinematically clear – in every single act of your dwellings and psychy.

He finished everything the devil did, does or still, proposes to do – till the end of time. That’s faith – my friend, when you believe and invite him into you heart and life. You’re experiences will be a gradual, or sudden supernatural – take over. Then; every thing will shift, or take over.  It’s beyond hope. Its Love* and it was freely given – to us. That’s why they say – the best things in life, are free! Amen. Salvation is free.

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The same grace that excuses them, excuses you – too. Only a fool would say its not true. Mercy. The love, and free will, that God gave to mankind is unprecedented, throughout, the human race. Who, just; would give such great love, compassion, and mercy, and grace, for reconciliation; then lay his own – only, begotten son, as a sacrifice; for atonement, for his own creations, misdeeds. I know only one who came close – Abraham; the father of faith!  Thats love*. That is deep, when you take time out; to process, it. After all he is God. He could take it all away, in an instant.

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He is the author of life and death. I’m subdued and humbled by the thought.  So, why would you stand in judgement, of another fellow, human being; when you are no better, save Gods Grace? We don’t have to do this all day ..’. Whether it’s politics or religion. It’s the same plot. They are just simply different characters. All hail the institutions of hypocrisy.

This one goes out to all the absolutes – in their self profession of absolute perfection and condescending airs that they’ve never lived up to ..’ #Illuminate this ..’ The joke – The shade ..’ Mercy!

To be continued ..’

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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer & 7X Multi Award Nominee :: No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts ::

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with ‘Floyd Mayweather’ – Don’t Hate by Aremuorin

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Why do we need to tear our own down ..’ Why?

Okay – I am not a huge boxing fan ..’ and know little about this dude. I only heard of him via Tyrese, recently ..’ From my little insight, he is the-cream of his crop!

So, I just read a-thrashing post online, after my opening-comment. He is a pig, but I think there are worse cases than him. I don’t condone violence domestically, at all, but I feel – there are worse pigs out there than him – dropping bombs on other countries and stealing their economy. Why not rant about that. White cops are killing us like dogs – next! Women who know he is like this that go after him – know what the deal is.

They want his money. So, don’t use him and cheat on him and cry wolf when you get caught. Money don’t buy you class. Goes both ways! If you had any class – you won’t tear him down, you would lift him up. Get him help. Maybe he is dyslexic or insecure or bipolar – you don’t know.

Don’t judge a book by the cover. Seriously- why tear your own down. SMH …’ The Black media should know better and black people should stop hating, but then again – Jealousy Is The Root Of Hatred!

It’s one thing to be torn apart outside your own home (by society), but it’ a different ball game, when you are being ripped apart, in your own home by your own kind. That’s just not right.

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with ‘You & Your Partners Phone’ – Transparency? by Aremuorin

This came up in a forum online – whilst I added an insight, still had the itch to post this here ..’ But really, how does this make you feel about the question posed above? Here was my take.

Yeap – If they are in a relationship .. why secrets, unless if its a work phone and you work for the CIA .. What are you hiding otherwise? Next .. Personally, I will be showing you the door.

The Truth

Truth is – you and I will never be in that relationship in the first place, cuz I will source you out on the first date – unless I’m only after your flesh. Luckily, I would never be short on A+ choices – if, I was that way inclined. This is just high school. Seriously – hiding phones in a relationship?

You know outright – that is not a relationship. A relationship without transparency is no relationship. Good Bye! Have a blessed life!

No transparency – No relationship.

No transparency – No relationship! Stop making a mockery of trust! For an issue of transparency to occur could mean one of a few things 1.) You have been caught out, 2.) Your partner is on a guilty cheating trip, 3.) Your relationship’s validity has come under scrutiny, 4.) You being challenged to prove your commitment to it, 5.) You have nothing to hide (so show it), 6.) There is a rumor needing to be squashed, 7.) It’s time to call it quits and go your separate ways.

What do you think?

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with Baby – ‘Next Time’

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Thank God – for the sun – it’s a beautiful day. I can feel you on my skin!

Until you tell people, what you don’t want – only then, will the right people come into your life, by process of elimination. It’s bull that you have to tolerate mediocre just because everyone is settling for less.

Maybe, you need to know your real worth. Time to ask a close friend, a trusted opinion, a non biased interest – distant from the equation ..’ God, love or religion has nothing to do with being a push over, or easy target for a*sh**les camouflaging like friends and sundries around you. One great friend is worth more than a million fake friends ..’

My theory is always this. Watch what they do, not what they say. Especially, to those who can do nothing for them because that’s how you will be treated one day. That”s Xter. That’s their integrity – come rain or shine. Thank God – for the sun – it’s a beautiful day. I can feel you on my skin!

So, the next time you hear the phrase ‘I have plans, maybe next time, maybe next,’ – you think, long  and hard, what that means. Maybe, baby done make other plans. Even worse, maybe baby is playing on you. Have a marvellous valentine but don’t let love play you! The greatest love of all is learning to love yourself …’ That mastered – the world is your oyster. You’ll pick and choose who is worthy of your friendship(s).

One great friend is worth more than a million fake friends ..’

Baby done make other plans ..’ Next – Oh Hell no!

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MercyfulGrace Blog Diaries with ‘VALENTINE’ – Dating Tips by Àrèmúorin

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with Assault – ‘Domestic Violence’.


It was friday morning, just after midnight – 8th of August 2014. I was strolling out the door to get something light, to eat, for a change and take a short walk around the neighbourhood. Then I heard her screaming ..’ What I witnessed next, was not pleasant. Scary for me too – because, I was not sure – If I’d be the next.

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The memories faded quickly into my childhood watching my father do this to my mother, in various degrees, as far back as when I was only 2, while she used to chase him out of the house with a roling pin.


I literally saw a man, choke hold his girlfriend and knock her to the ground on my street. She confronted him for lying to her, being in bed, only to find him in a club with another girl. Then he assaulted her. Girls, why do you put up with this kind of behaviour and men?

She was hysterical, telling him to leave her alone but he kept intimidating her, the more – saying, he’ll hit her if he wanted. She was screaming. No neighbours helped – until I came out and called the police.

MG Log editedShe is in bits now – in the police car! I waited a while to see how it was going to develop. Luckily, someone like me was nearby to assist the poor girl. I totally forgot I had my mini camera on me – to capture the whole saga. These were white folks by the way.


It was interesting ironically;  her head was telling her – “He is a fool, and liar and a cheat – leave him”, but her heart was saying, “love me more”. Even thou, she was in terror, terrified by his actions – she was desperately clinging unto his twisted fists, while he was still trying to kiss her – to confuse her, even more. I hope this serves as a cautionary tale -to someone out there.

Don’t put up with it. Put him out …’ I don’t care how good it is or how good he is. Nobody should be subjected to a life of violence and deprecation – for the sake of being with someone.

The  onus is on fathers to love their daughters unconditionally. If a girl have men at home; in her brothers, uncles and father(s) – who treat her like a princess, when she goes out to find a man (court) – she will settle for nothing less than a man who will treat her like a Queen! Why wouldn’t she? When she can go back home to being treated as a princess ..’

The more he wanted her, the more he abused her and violated her, and her trust – in other men; too. Not good. “The mire of mediocre is no way for a King and Queen like You and I”. Haters are like glue stuck to water in vain ..’ Wanting, you – to feel the strain!

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She needs counscelling !!! Prayers and deliverance in every sense !!!

#MercyfulGrace #Domestic #Violence

Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer & 7X multi award nominee :: No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts ::

Lurin Cato On Finding The One ..’ – #In14Ways #LurinCato #MercyfulGrace

We caught up with Lurin Cato – The Multiple Gospel Award Winner- and this is what she shared with us on Relations for Christian Women :: Some Good Stuff to think about – Enjoy ..’
This isn’t for every lady out there but for some. For the unmarried that is. I know we can be fussy, and I believe we’re more fussy now then ever before.
Not entirely all our fault. Some guys need to step up (not all, some ). Some of us women, before we were saved, we were at the clubs raving away and hoped we saw the one that looked KRISSSSSS to come through those doors and approach us.
Or when we saw them we’d tell our friends – ‘that one is mine’. Most times, he would look like the man on the left hand side, of the picture.
Ladies, now that your saved ‘some of you’ are looking for the Christian version of that guy And waiting for that moment of Boom!! There u go! there he is! A tall, strapping lad, looks like he works out with a bible in his hand. Ladies no one said you can’t have a Preference BUT! Try and speak to the men who aren’t like that.
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You’ll be amazed how some are interesting, intriguing, inspiring, beautiful characters and have something about that them that makes you want to talk to them more. Remember God made men with a void that’s why we are his help mate.
So not all men will have everything together. Now, before it’s all said and done, it’s good to find out his back ground, build a friendship etc and pray on it too. Well that’s all I wanted to say. Blessings, hope I’ve given you something to think about.
Lurin Cato is a Multiple Gospel Award Winner – performing next at the Jazz Cafe on the :: 4th of August 2014 
MercyfulGrace final thoughts ..’ 
Personally, I speak to, and love; who ever my spirit is drawn to ..’ There is always a reason for a connection. You need to process what you are feeling. What defiles a man is what comes out of him ..’

“What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them.” Mathew 15: 11

Gone are the days I used wait around for approval ..’ It’s an utter waste of time. Why wait for it, when they can give it you today and take it tomorrow. I rather run to Jesus !!!


Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer & 7X multi award nominee No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts