My response to Dr Oba Laaro on Women – #In14ways #MercyfulGrace #Aremuorin

I beg to disagree on technicality.

Who has time to write a long essay? So, let’s just play nice and agree to disagree.

I could start with the woman who cooked her two children alive in an oven then called 911 and blamed her house help who was not even there. Fact !!!

Or the woman who accepted money from her sons to have sex & impregnate her daughter (their own younger sister) twice – before she was a teen.

Seriously, let’s not start this. Shall we just have a nice day.

That’s just scratching the surface of women. Women are the deadliest of the human species and that’s a well known adage told ..’

At the end of the day – all humans are capable of despicable evils ..’

Experience is the best teacher. It comes quicker to others than others!

What has biology got to do with maternal or paternal instincts?

Gay parents can raise or foster children just as good if not better from a place of inner strength and resilience.

Here is the Original Post:

Authored by Dr. Oba Laaro, Mass Comm. Dept., Unilorin. THE SECRET OF WOMAN CREATION..

A woman is like a tea bag – you can’t tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.
-Eleanor Roosevelt

I have always been intrigued by the character of women…

How most of us men underestimate their power, strength and resourcefulness..

Understand me here, not all females are women but all women are females…

This is for women, not females…

These wonderful creatures of the Most High are indispensable…

We, men, cannot operate or function perfectly without them…

No man, except Adam, came to this world but through a woman…

Only a woman can give birth to a child. There is no dispute over that….

Science has evolved by bounds and leaps over the course of time but it has not crossed this particular hurdle…

The saying that behind or beside every successful man there is a woman comes to mind here…

Every man who has scaled the walls of success has had a woman helping him from behind the scenes…

There is always a woman somewhere praying for, crying for or because of, hustling on behalf of, wishing well or missing a man…

There is no man out there that is not loved, prayed for or cared for by at least one woman…

Even if the whole world hates a man, he can be assured of his mother’s love…

Women are mentally stronger than men by far… I decoded this long time ago…

A woman can go through forty heartbreaks in a lifetime and not only survive but stay hopeful of a perfect forty one…

A man hardly survives one…

A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars….

If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman…

Women have to constantly deal with a lot of issues emotionally, physically and spiritually…

Still they handle them with class and ease…

The things women deal with on a daily basis are things that require divine wisdom and strength..

From menstrual pains, in-laws, pregnancy, childbirth, taking care of the home/kids, diaper changes, sleepless nights after childbirth, breastfeeding, post natal blues to early morning indomie and school runs…

Only a woman hears a child’s cry and knows exactly what the child wants…

A woman is the ultimate multi-tasker; she can do five different things at the same time and she’ll still be sane enough to handle her responsibility as a wife, mother, sister, daughter and career woman…

Most times she is the first to wake up and the last to go to bed…

A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets…

She may stay in a marriage simply to please her family, custom or tradition for sixty years without ever showing remorse…

A man can hardly survive sixty minutes without contemplating an exit covertly or otherwise…

Only a woman cries herself to sleep at night then embraces her kids in the morning with a hug and a smile..

A woman carries the burden of family without expectation that someone will feel her pain or cry her tears…

We men are spoiled by women and we take that for granted…

There is hardly a time a man is not loved genuinely by a woman…it’s always your mother, your wife, sisters or daughters…

There are times that men ONLY love themselves…

I can go on and on and on….

So if you are reading this, wherever you are, stop whatever you are doing…

Visit or call the women in your life and tell them how appreciative you are of all the things they do…and how sorry you are…and mean it.

Start with your mother, if she’s still alive. And if she’s not, pray for her until the day you die…

I hope that my daughters grow up empowered and never define themselves by the way they look but by qualities that make them intelligent,
strong, caring and responsible women.

To all the women in the house, I appreciate you all!

the end.

To conclude. What would man do when we get to places that Adam has never been? Or even Eve.

By Aremuorin

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The Ten Gaydar Commandments

Written by Aremuorin

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Straight men are secure in their sexuality and have nothing to prove ..’

Although, this is for a bit of banter, and fun, there is some dark humour in the pun.

Some people will struggle with this post. Some relationships will see a decline while others will be greatly challenged.

But I am here, sent by myself to deliver to you, the good news. To free those who are; from bondage. For there is no condemnation in Jesus. Amen !!!

The rest is a waste of good vibrations. As a savy, very open minded, super tolerant black man who has processed and seen the bullsh*t from different perspectives; called human sexuality hear me out.

1. All men are gay until proven straight.

2. Straight men are not homophobes.

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3. Straight men are secure in their sexuality and have nothing to prove.

4. Men will stick it in anything as long as their friends don’t know (Thank you RuPaul for this one).

5. Your average man of the millennial is bi in denial but will justify it as okay if in a threesome with two of the! opposite sex. !!!

6. Alpha males tend to be bi and closeted and their wives know or protect them.

7. Sometimes gay men make great fathers when broken and woken up inside. Especially alpha gay men.

9. Some women are attracted to bi men and alpha bi men who will later deny they did not know they were; after having a family with them. I don’t believe them. Don’t believe them.

10. Threesomes with straight couples opens the door to swinging and more curious sexual deviance’s from mild to full blown gay fetishes, fantasies and eroticism.

Mathew 7:1 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.

I always remind them that ‘Abraham, the Father of Faith’ had whore’s (Ketura) and Jesus’s Nan (Rahab) was a whore. Even Jesus’s best mate (Mary Magdalene) was one. A whore.

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with ​RAISE YOUR VOICES – ‘FOR JUSTICE’.

In 1929, women from Ibibio, Andoni , Opobo, Igbo, Bonny and Ogoni marched to Oloko district to protest the restriction of women’s role in government in colonial times. 

The Warrant Chiefs at the time used their power positions to openly oppress the Igbo market women which resulted in the revolt now known in history books as the ‘Aba Women Riot of November 1929’.  

Wikipedia says it was a “strategically executed anti-colonial revolt organised by women to redress social, political and economic grievances” and resulted in the resignation of many of the Warrant Chiefs at the time.

Today we are faced with the same terror of social, political and economic grievances on the backbone of ethnic and religious divides that appear to be widening especially in Northern Nigeria.

The recent acquittal of the 5 Men who allegedly killed an Igbo woman in a Kano market in broad daylight, in full view of witnesses, which the NPF now claim to have insufficient evidence of under section 130 and 150 of the criminal code is worrying. 

Also the 15 years old Christian girl abducted and married off to the 65 years old Katsina Emir, a case pursued by CAN on the instance of her parents, to which the Katsina Emirates have ruled as ‘legal’ even though the Koran teaches  that a young woman cannot be given in marriage without her parents consent is also ignored by the Law.

No outcry, no recriminations to a government that plays to the gallery in the face of ethnic and religious occurrences which is now a  growing concern in Nigeria.

Shall we wait until our mothers are killed or daughters abducted before we ask the nation to stand up and ask to be heard??  Womem especially female groups like HOSEI, FIN, Greenlands and NGOS like Project Alert …..Speak Out before its too late.

Women in the Senate and the House of Reps should remember that they were elected to take a position on matters such as these; so far they have collectively let us down.  So the next time a male Senator threatens violence against a female Senator, we will also be silent.


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MercyfulGrace Diaries with Dr. Francis Cress Welsing – ‘ISIS Papers’.

Who is this narcissistic opinionated writer? I’m not in agreeance with procreation privileges.

Slow down playing God. Procreation is a right and act of God. Obviously it has great responsibilities.

Here is where BLM gets politically incorrect. Theres nothing above love. How can you demand respect you arent willing to give?

The love you give is what you get. Nobody owns love. Its freely given and can not be bought or sold ..’

I think its implied that white supremacists are taking notes, too; because pillaging and plundering other races non stop is an inevitable war zone with savage diabolical consequences for everyone.

I’m picking up on her view on procreation. It jarred me and ressurrected a nasty experience from a very once upon a time friend who was a feminist – from a male perspective.

As I learn her views were written in the 60s as a behevourial scientist, at a time of a different school of thought, I will be kind. However, the people from that generation are still alive.

The feminist I mentioned was born in that era. So I’m on track. And this school of thought is dangerously still current.

This doctors science and my faith in humanities, disagrees with her. I dont like that attitude towards men. What about women who cant protect their children or men from white supremacy? Lets start with my mother ..’

Women who emasculate men are just as guilty. Thats why I love my Grandmother. They dont make them like her anymore. - My Grandmother. She Loves Her Bible. – My Grandmother. She Loves Her Bible.

Rare like fine wine. She raised 9 beautiful kids and made millionaires out of some of them. Never heard her moan about a man but defend their honour. Including mine. Even before I knew what she was doing. Till today. She does, all the way from Africa. – THE ISIS PAPERS

Some blacks are the most evil whitesupremists with no soul. Totally programmed, brainwashed with self hate and emptied of love. They are male and they are female. Takes both species to protect or procreate and from every race for the human race. Lets not masturbate the truth. 

God works in mysyerious ways. Reminds me of the dispicable, evil, white supremacist, slave master – who wrote ‘Amazing Grace’. Deep. Imagine!

By Aremuorin

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MercyfulGrace Diares with ‘Sexual Harassment & Xenophobia’ – By Men & Women by Aremuorin ::

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Ironic, how you assume men don’t get sexually harassed by men, and by women! When girls do it, they are slick. When men do this, they are vulgar and predatorial, loosing the blurred lines between advances and harassment. Jesus*

This is eye opening. I get sexually harassed 60% of the times by middle aged white men, 40% 18% to 24 years. Girls are always generally; good. Maybe less than 5% women, sexually harass me personally.

They are aways tongue and cheek mostly. But here is a question. What about sexual bullies, in your social network? How do you report them or tackle that? Bullies, run networks and cover their tracks by power of influence – where they can.

Hence why high profile cases of sexual indecency like pedophilia goes unnoticed for years. I pray ..’ I say Mercyfulgrace‪ #‎RealTalk‬ :: ‪#‎ReportiT‬

On a tangent ..’ I have mixed emotions today. Between, racial equality, xenophobia (which I believe, when searched out, someone funded, to go in, to stir) and white supremacy – I feel challenged and passioned to make a difference and voice a change – with my gifts, talents and abilities.

All this time I was waiting for  ‘Black Jesus’ – then ‘White Jesus’ came to me – Hallelujah! I guess I’m waiting for ‘Mixed Race Jesus’

So, go ahead – if this inspires you to do something. I could cavier all night, drink and play away my leisure time, keeping useless company, cooning; but I choose to use it wisely, thus; keep company that benefits my morale, spiritually, mentally, socially and prosperously.

On a personal journey and note – Negative people, are never going to prosper where they should.

If you rather expend your energy on sabotaging, and spewing hate, venom and toxins; than burring your soul in deep truths and integral pursuits that foster greatness; go ahead. You’d reap what you sow, cuz what will be will be – ultimately.

The universe does not lie. Money is not happiness. If you were never happy – you’d never know what is even if you had it. I have no time for it.

Have a beautiful day. So much work to do. So little time to do it! Jesus* 

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with ‘Assault’ – When Women Abuse Men By Aremuorin

“I thank God for the HOLY SPIRIT, even when I am wrong – I am right, cuz that Grace of God, will lead me home”.

Female aggression ::

See, I will never be in the company of such a woman, nor date, nor be friends with ..’ I’ve learned to look for the signs ..’ You are what you eat.

Why would I need to gratify myself with such debauchery – when I know I am fearfully, and wonderfully made by God? I can go out any night, or day of the week – and pick up beautiful people :: Young, old, grey, black, blue, yellow or purple.


See, myself esteem is not that low and I am not that shallow. This is down to knowing the truth. If you don’t know, then you believe what you don’t know. And, I know, I don’t need this.

So, it would not be happening to me, any time, soon ..’ Jesus*

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MercyfulGrace Blog Diaries with ‘Venus Nights’ – Women Working In Music :: ::

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Are all coming together for one night only, to support women in music, donating their time, crafts and energy to champion the music creative industry.

All proceeds from Venus Nights go these vital charities:

Nordoff Robbins– transforming the lives of vulnerable children and adults across the UK through music therapy

Smart Works– provide high quality interview clothes, styling advice and interview training to out-of-work women on low incomes

Eaves– works to expose and tackle domestic abuse, sexual violence and the exploitation of women image

VENUS NIGHTS is a community-interest company that provides a platform for an increasing network of professional women musicians to showcase their talent while supporting charitable organizations.


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