CHARACTER ASSASSINATION ..’ – #In14Ways #ArtOfWar #MercyfulGrace

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One mistake you should never make is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn’t wronged you.
Hear this: “ *We must avoid taking hasty conclusion because of what others are saying about someone else*”.

What people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more directly: The things you say about others, says a lot about you! I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.

*Character assassination* is a pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere. You find it in families, churches, organizations, work places, etc.

Wikipedia defines Character assassination as the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual.

The Merriam-Webster defines it as the slandering of a person usually with the intention of destroying public confidence in that person.

Athi Murugan defines “Character Assassination” as the act of lowering one’s character in a bid to ruin the character of others.

There are people that take maximum delight in ruining other’s reputation. These set of people have what I will like to call ‘Destructive Tendencies’. They oil their own ego by pulling other people down. PhD(pull him down).

False allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. When people can’t kill your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. There are some people that your spirit will always irritate their demons! Once they realize hating isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about you. People are assassinated once but ‘Character Assassination’ kills daily! Character assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.

Someone once said, “A friend of my enemy is my enemy.” One of the things that hinders us from living a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing past bias and sentiments into present relationships. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends on intentions and contributions. God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!

*7 critical ‘DON’Ts’ that you really need to guard yourself against.*
Refusing to getting trapped in them will help you live a more productive, fulfilling and unbiased life. They are:

1. *Don’t conclude about people because of what others say about them:* Never draw up conclusions based on what others tell you about someone. It is a lack of social intelligence that makes people draw conclusions on others based on what other people say about them. I know you’ve heard about emotional and financial intelligence, but there is something called social intelligence. This is the kind of intelligence that keeps you sane even when others are trying to pollute your mind against someone else until you have thoroughly confirmed the veracity of the claims before you. Judges are trained to have this kind of intelligence in order to avoid biased judgments.

*2. Don’t inherit other people’s enemy:* It is total lack of education and enlightenment when you automatically make your friend’s enemies your own. Don’t make people your enemies just because they are not in good terms with your friends.

*3. Don’t use your children as weapons of war:*
God can use your enemies to bless your children! The Bible says that your children are for signs and wonders. Stop using them to fight those you don’t like. Your children will need to discern their enemies for themselves; never use your parental influence to make your children hate others. You may often need to guard them with their choice of friends but never plant the seed of discord in the heart of your children against someone else.

*4. Don’t gang up with others to hate someone:* Don’t join the majority to hate someone – you may realize that the person has no offence. Someone said, “If you don’t see it with your own eyes, or hear it with your own ears. Don’t invent it with your small mind and share it with your big mouth”. Never join the multitude to hate someone else.

*5. Don’t be used as weapon in other people’s battle:* It is not every battle that you must involve yourself in. Refuse to be used as weapons in other people’s battle. When people fight dirty, refuse to take sides. Observe deeply before concluding finally.

*6. Don’t hate people just because they don’t behave like you:* That someone is not your tribe doesn’t make them your enemy. It is a waste of education if the only people you like are those that are like you. The greatest proof of our education is in how we respond to people whose opinions are different from ours. People who think their opinions are superior to others are most prone to overestimating their relevant knowledge and ignoring chances to learn more.
The people who don’t think like you are your greatest source of enlightenment. It is normally people that are not like us that help us grow the most. Companies that had maximized growth are really those that value diversity and inclusion.

*7. Don’t judge people until you know the whole story: Someone once said,* “Beware of the half-truth. You may have gotten hold of the wrong half”. Don’t judge other people’s choices without understanding their reasons.
If people say something bad about you or judge you as if they know you, don’t easily get affected. Remember this, *dogs bark if they don’t know the person.* People who are intimidated by you talk about you with hopes that others won’t find you so appealing.

Stay away from people who talk bad about others daily; these kind of people carry a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious. The real problem is not that they are unhappy about others, but they are unhappy with themselves.

Stop the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try and discuss it with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said, “Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”. Stop spreading false information and rumours about others.

Rumours are carried by haters, spread by fools and accepted by idiots! Stop creating walls of contention, rather help build bridges of understanding among people. May God help bless 🌍 us all. Amen

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This Is So #Inspiring ..’ – #In14Ways #RobertTaylor #MercyfulGrace

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To all you folks out there who have something awful to say about #lgbtqia folks: watch this young man.

Owning your truth is how you become. You can not give what you don’t have. Everybody, wants to be #loved❤👈🏿 ..’

This is so inspiring. Straight to the core and soul. I know one or two great lgbtqia+ men who are not living their truths because of this reason. I wish it was that easy thou.

What would love do? One thing I know for sure is there is nothing above love.

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Harrassment and Cyber #Bullying ..’ – #In14Ways #MercyfulGrace #SundayConfessions

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Need Help. Someone Just Deleted All my recommendations on #linkedIn. This must stop. They do it across my social media.

Furthermore, they have done just about anythng evil, on all my social media accounts, blocking, hacking, deleting messages; fans, followers and what not.

You wonder what the heck is going on. Why all this evil? We are only living our normal lives.

My moments are not according to their time strecthing nor bending. I belong to the most high.

So they should just leave me the fcuk alone. Not interested in luciferianism.

I’m a perfect 7. They have been at this oppression for the past 2 decades. And I have been just abour tolerant as much as I can.

This is not for the faint hearted. I overstand! If I told you, half of it – some of you would lose your minds. I know that part first hand cuz I have been there one too many a time.

They will gaslight the hell out of you and even use a plant like you to do it in your own close knit community.

God does not forget. He does not sleep. He is a pious judge who takes avengance utterly.

In Africa we say, “the Assasination of Ones Character does not stop God’s work. If you assasinate my credibility, God❤👈🏿 will restore me” ..’

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A Black Man Hanging On 20 Dollar Bill in #2020? ..’ – #In14Ways #Fiction #Fact #MercyfulGrace

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When evil violates us, let’s pray love leads the way. Everybody wants to be #loved ..’ – #In14Ways

Hate is a vibration the opposite of love. You can not give what you do not have. Naturally. But why do we live on colour supremacy?

Someone shared this clip today from the USA The unidentified person made the voice over. It provoked a sensation in her. Compelling, no less.

Our lived experiences defines us❤👈🏿. However, I learn daily that evil is smart and only love conquers hate. What do you think?

Do you think a black man should be hanging on a rope on a 20 dollar bill in 2020? Do you think this is a psyop?

Crtiques have debunked it as a myth that it is actually a 1902 lantern:

“Distinctive wrought iron and glass lantern” was hung in the North Portico of the White House in 1902 by Edward F. Caldwell and Co. as part of President Theodore Roosevelt’s Beaux-Arts renovation”.

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#Love #Hate
#Racism #Blm
#ICantBreathe

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So touching❤👈🏿 from Andrew Ssempija in #Uganda ..’ #SundayConfessions #AndrewSsempija #MercyfulGrace

Written by Dr. Abejide Olusegun

My sweet Dad Hussein Ssempija, he got a mental disorder since mum was murdered but he’s still my father.

I love him so much and I pray to God to give me money when my dad is still alive so that I could change his life.

I am being abused by friends that my Dad is mad, but I don’t care because though, his brother raised and sponsored me throughout my Educational level. From primary school, now a surgeon.

As long as his brother did all these for me, I believe it was my dad who did it. So, I will take care of him and my little siblings too.

Many of us may not make it in life because of the way we treats our parents. Either they help you or not, immediately you become a man, Please, identify yourself with them, they brought you to this life. Again, I love you dad.

I love you Daddy, you are my father, and God gave you to me with a great reason, you will never embarrass me daddy.

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God is #real ..’ – #In14Ways #SundayConfessions #MercyfulGrace #AnthonyEverest

Written by Anthony Everest

God is real and he prepares us for greater and the greatest battles.

I hated been androgynous for cultural and religious reasons. I was also unaware till I was in my 30’s. Was teased, bullied and misunderstood.

So I pretended I was invisible and hid my feelings by being a door mat for acceptance.

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It lowered my self esteem, as I became less invisible due to bad religion and peer pressure.

Although, my androgyny was my strength and grace all along. It was the God in me. The force within. The image of God he prepeared for greater.

Now I embrace my uniqueness. My strength. My Power. My love. My calling. My greater that was waiting all along. The real me❤👈🏿.

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RELIGIOUS WITH NO COMMON #SENSE ..’ – #In14Ways #Religion #MercyfulGrace

Written by Dr Olusegun Abejide

The average Nigerian or Africans, in general, have so much energy to preaching about Jesus to you and threaten you with hellfire and heaven that is unseen.

Yet they cannot use the same energy to gather people together and speak against oppression or finding a means to their poverties, the real hell they are experiencing on earth every day

One of them is a childhood friend and a school mate, he threatened me recently by saying; “I am nothing without Jesus, and my reply to him was; you are nothing without common sense. 50/50.

Take, for example, another friend of mine, a classmate was also telling me about a contract of over 500 million Naira he won recently, to supply MAIZE. He has gone to every nook and cranny of the country looking for Maize but couldn’t get even up to 1% OF WHAT HE NEEDED. He then decided to import the amount he needed from Brazil.

Importing Maize from Brazil to Nigeria! That was my response. Without cultivating it, a drop of Maize can continue germinating by itself on a fallow soil with a little moist weather. Yet, almost 70% of Nigerians have no job, mostly the youths.

They all sit in the cities, wallowing in poverty, rather than go to the interiors and start cultivating. God will always be right when he said: “My people are perishing for lack of knowledge.” There is no Jesus anywhere other than in the soil.

Cultivate it, plant Maize and in three months (90days), the real and meaning of Christ will manifest itself. So, stop preaching to me until you preach to the soil first.

Bring out Jesus from the soil; hence, I will be the first in your church on Sunday. A man who does not know how to impregnate the soil first, shouldn’t be allowed to impregnate any woman, period.

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Steve Harveys Vision Board ..’ – #In14Ways #SteveHarvey #MercyfulGrace

Written By Anthony Everest

Recieved❤

Bad religion is a pandemic. It’s a grave concern for me as a POC. It’s a deadly snake in the hands of my enemy. Mental Slavery! And the arrogance of it all is just pure evil at it’s best. I don’t need the Pope to find God. I still don’t.

Watch Steve’s testimony here

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On George Floyd: A White Womans❤👈🏿 Perspective. Listen to the End. Respect !!!!

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What’s the penalty for the #adulterous #wife? – #In14Ways #MercyfulGrace

Written by Aremuorin

If rocks are tied to a man’s balls as punishment?👇🏿

In Africa: What is the penalty for the adulterous wife? Is she innocent in all of this?

May be this is why God is mad and why He sent a plague🤷🏿‍♂️.

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