The Art of Ghosting with Susan Obehioye

​To those of you who think it’s ok to be VERY BLUNT and without tact. Just know one thing. When people start avoiding you. Please don’t make a fuss.

Yes it’s fine to be blunt .. but sometimes think about how the other person would feel. Apply wisdom in communicating especially when it’s a sensitive subject. 
I will give you a few examples …. I had a friend who felt she could give out criticism so easily.

But hated it when she got it as good as she gave it.One day I just realised I didn’t need to deal with all her… “I tell it as it is”.
Oh and another friend who felt she could just say it straight to me or anyone if she was not happy and would not expect you to stand up for yourself.

I made jenny’s hair! Jenny was naughty so I cut all her hair off! 😂😂

My method of getting rid!? Ghosting!!!! Ghosting is the perfect art of disappearing from someone. You don’t take calls texts. Or even acknowledge their existence.

They are not the only ones. If I chose to ghost you because you refused to install a filter between your brain and your mouth.. then I did it for my self care.

As adults no one is here to be treated like a child. If you can’t tell your friend the truth in a clear concise respectful manner. Then accept the fact that your constant self righteous behaviour of gagging at the sound of your own voice can be nauseating.

I don’t do confrontation. I just ghost. I can’t be dealing with people who don’t know how to grow up.

Susan Obehioye is a Makeup Artist from London ..

By Aremuorin

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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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Lurine Cato – Multiple Gospel Award Winner

JDISCLAIMER – ‘This is not a highbrow – ParkinsonWendy or Oprah Winfrey interview. All the rules of journalism were probably broken, for a very good reason. At MercyfulGrace, WE BELIEVE, in realism! (Keeping It Real!) 

Caught up with Lurine Cato, a Multiple Gospel Award Winning Singer-Songwriter, from London – UK, after so many phone calls back and forth, diary notes and texts. She is well busy now you know. So Glad the interview is finally here.

#reminiscing

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She is awesome. The interview turned into a Spiritual Sharing Moment. Quite emotional and raw. We even prayed. Who does that in an interview? We did – Ha Ha ah – in the enemies face !!!

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So, undecided, to transcribe the whole interview and publish it, in it’s truthful entirety. We’ve removed some stuff for Legal Reasons – but, aside – this is a real remarkable interview with Lurine Cato. Blessed to be honoured with this interview. Learned so much from her! THE INTERVIEWHope you do too. Be Blessed & Inspired!. Enjoy Xx:)

Lurin Cato

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Interview Running Time in Minutes

00:00 :: Intro / Greetings
01:49 :: Mood
03:05 :: Genres
07:10 :: Heroes
09:03 :: Redemption / Oath to God
11:46 :: Role Models
12:26 :: 5yrs Time
14:28 :: interlude (On Gangs)
15:21 :: Advice for Single Parents
18:16 :: Interlude :: prophetic testimony
19:49 :: The Speech / The Gongs
24:39 :: On Hell pt1
25:50 :: On Hell pt2
25:40 :: Heaven Vs Hell
28:18 :: Winning pt2
32:10 :: Interlude :: Gods Grace / Lurin’s Testimony
37:23 :: Fame
38:01 :: Goals
38:43 :: Memoirs
39:34 :: The Star
39:51 :: That Question?
42:08 :: Favourite Song
43:14 :: Who Is Lurin Cato?
44:50 :: The Prayer
46:42 :: Closing / Gratitudes

By Aremuorin

#MercyfulGrace #Love #truths

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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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Playing Africa Week ..’

On the 27th of May in London we shall be playing some songs and having some good old fun with our music and more surprises plus guests …’


Grab a ticket here. There is also opportunity to pre order our new Ep Oblivion on its way.
More details here. We have been working away on bringing you some new music. Bringing you the best of African cuisine too that is sure to wet your appetite ..’

Aremuorin ft. Anthony Everest

Jollof Rice and Tilapia

#Flashback #VanessaSamafu and @anthonyeverest IN #GOD I HAVE ALL THE #STRENGTH I #NEED..' I'M #STRONG BECAUSE HE IS. I AM #ALIVE CUZ HE IS THE #TIMELESS #ANCIENT OF #DAYS ..' #MercyfulGrace #friends #MercyfulGraceDiaries #Repost #goodtimes❤️

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By Aremuorin

#MercyfulGrace #Love #truths

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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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When we come out of captivity  

“When we come out of captivity, we have to have the right mindset. How I think reflects how I speak and how I speak is how I act. Keep in mind, God Knows what we are thinking. 

Once He delivers Us and we have a Selfish or Self Centered mindset, ‘I am doing me and Mines’ with Gods Blessings and NOT bless His House and His people. 

Expect to be right back in captivity. Sometimes we become our own worst enemy, so be careful not to become unclean. 

Watch your behavior, don’t be careless and loose. Focus, Give, Pray and Fast for Others and Exalt God At All times, because it ALLLL Belongs to Him anyway!” Yesssssssss I Recieve it! Hallelujah!

#ThankYOUJesus Haggai   1: 1-15 & 2:1-19. INCREDIBLE WORD 

Bishop Stephen Hamilton #BibleStudy

By Shondrella Avery

 Notes by Aremuorin

Word. That’s me ohhh. God help me out of captivity. Omg. Truth. No shade. It’s like touching fire over and over again forgeting the sting of the burns cuz they were healed like before. 

Bad company and old thoughts. Just to fit in. Compromising virtues and morals. Longing for emptiness and frazzled objectives. Free my mind and the rest will sync.

Independence leading no where. Without God’s breath of life in us we are perilous nothingness and dust. Might as well float in the wind. Even Godless souls want our graces. How much more we his children with the right to the graces and it’s ultimate sources. 

May God deliver me from captivity. This is timely !!! No shade oh. I don’t know about you but I know I need it this morning and every day of my life. Amen.
Worst own enemy. True talk. Let go !!!!!! 

Thank you Shondrella Avery for sharing. May God bless you and refill you abundantly more. God himself is the word. The enemy likes to twist them in our minds. That’s how we become depressed. God said no. 

He. Is the word. Believe !!! Pay Lucifer the father all lies no mind today and always ..’ 

However, this is not by work of righteousness but by his grace alone. Pray for re direction and correction as you believe. Even a physician told me this once. Pray ..’ 
Use the word ..’ Amen.

#MercyfulGrace #Rethink #GodFirst

Words & Music By Anthony Everest

Produced by Aremuorin



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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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Power 

Stuck like glue. I am hooked on this one ..' – #AnthonyEverest #MercyfulGrace #omarihardwick #BLM #tv #talent #blacktalent #cantstopwontstop #love #amazing #àrèmúorin #aremuorin #writer #actor #interviews #interview

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Just finished watching 3 series of #Power in 3 days ..’ Sad ending but terrific work. 💼 If you have not seen this show I recommend It. Especially if you watche’d #Empire. 

Contrary to the #norm here. I #love 💝 #talking about #Jesus. He keeps #me #focused and appeased, amidst the #racism and #prejudices I face daily as a creative #person of #colour ..' #MercyfulGrace #AnthonyEverest #GodFirst ..'

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You’d love this even more ..’ I feel attached to #Ghost and his family 👫. I can’t believe it’s not real. That’s how good it is ..’ 

Solve this. The winners get a free track from my latest #NeverAroundEp ..' #MercyfulGrace #AnthonyEverest #BrainTease

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I’m #sorry. I love 💝 #Empire but #Power sh*ts on it ..’ It’s just thoughtfully thought out 😝. I have to catch up with Empire thou. Maybe they have raised their game too ..’

Until God says well done my Son – no Grammy or Oscar will do!

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I am so greatful to witness great art and works by #50Cent. Such a huge #fan even more. 

He scares me in #Power as an actor; and still, I love 💝 his #music. Can’t wait for season 4.

Religious hypocrisy is a serious epidemic worthy of prayers. How self righteous people, feel, vindicated, to condemn, and judge others in the name of God with salacious, hate and bigotry, is beyond me. Not even 'Jesus', was told, or taught, or sent, to do that. So, which God sent you, to do that? – Anthony Everest #Irresistible #MercyfulGrace #Love #Forgiveness #MercyfulGraceDiaries #wednesday #confessions #critical #thinking #favour #Asakeoge #Aremuorin #AnthonyEverestMusic #girl #boy #lifestyle #pictureoftheday #nofilter #whitegirlskillingit #africa #Europe #realtalk #Africanboyskillingit #dipped #lgbt #loveyou #sweet #BlackLivesMatter #popstar #musicbusiness

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His delivery is so mesmeric. No ⛔ #shade 😍🤗😇. I also salute all the cast members too for a brilliantastic job. Keep slaying. God bless you  …’

#MercyfulGrace #OmariHardwick #Cookie

Produced by Aremuorin

#GodFirst #Narcolepsy #NeverAroundEp
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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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Shondrella Avery – ‘Surrenderance’.

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So glad a creative from Hollywood has a mind of love like Shondrella. The glory of self righteous men is never the full glory of God. Smash this week and weekend with smiles – even, in the face of adversity ..’ Don’t let the enemy win, nor in !!! Boom! Have a super duper – funtastic one ..’

– Aremuorin

Food for thought!

“The THINGS that we worry about are things that we don’t fully surrender to God, money, Relationships etc. But IF we have “Faith,” to pray for the things, then we should have Faith, enough, to wait on deliverance.


WE do have a God that IS mindful of our situations. So WHY Panic? Simply PRAISE Him. Fear NOT, Believe Only! Gods People Cannot be depressed for to long…
WE should be Joyous! So, let things go quickly by Giving it to God, Not people. And GET Negative, unbelievers OUT OF YOUR LIFE! We’ve Got a 5 week Grace (5means grace) Period to work on eliminating negative thinking and everything else BUT God!”


Yesssss BOOM BISHOP! Sooooo many Nuggets in #BibleStudyClass #Gratitude #BethankfulforwhatyouGot  Wow..

MercyfulGrace.blog – Shondrella Avery with Anthony Everest

ALL the clues are In Philippians 4:4-8 Powerful! Bless You Bishop Stephen Hamilton”.

#MercyfulGraceDiaries #Friends #MovieBusiness #AmazingGrace #GodFirst

Written by Shondrella Avery (Actress – Los Angeles)

Produced by Aremuorin

#MercyfulGrace #Cults #76theMovie

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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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MercyfulGrace Diaries with Duncan James – ‘Serving Love’.

Closed minded self #righteous deluded #religious #hypocrites don’t #thrill me anymore. I got too much #work to do. Looking for #new #adventures now ..’ My #storm #passed leaving #blue skies.

Thank you #Jesus. Thank you #almighty; for #Great things you do for #Me. #Amen. I have been there critiqued that t shirt, it doesent fit anymore.
Left it for the very same who are products of it’s mental slavery going to its perpatrators churches, praying; to white Jesus – hanging on the wall, to save them. 
Meanwhile, repressed, fuly fuelled with despicable, insatiable hate; towards anything around them they don’t understand. Dumb asses.

And oh. They are black, and they are white; alike. So I leave it to them, to wear that t-shirt. Some times they need it more than you do. Love.

I don’t #think #racism has a #colour. I #feel racism has a #mood. Its #called  #HATE. If #anything, that’s it’s colour ..’

From this one. I can not run. It’s not black. It’s not white. It’s not straight. It’s not gay. It’s not right. It’s not wrong. It’s not agnostic. It’s not gnostic. It’s not old. It’s not new. It’s not the future. It’s not the past. It’s just love. And it pulls me to a Godly love ..’

When people use the name of God to hate. I’m like – Wao! I’m thinking vibrations and frequencies; and this one does not lie ..’ Maybe I’m just weird enough to think abstract thoughts to the wind of change ..’

Duncan James; currently stars in the UK Tv Production 

of Hollyoaks and is the 1/4 member of the chart topping band – ‘BLUE’. 

Trivia : ‘Duncan recently recovered from a a serious life threatning spinal injury which required operations on his spine twice that nearly left him crippled’.


MercyfulGrace.com – Blue

Yikes! Thank God for your speedy recovery and that you are back to being amazing; serving us with your sassy loving self ..’ #Love does not #hate and your kind of love is amazing and super great ..’

#MercyfulGraceDiaries #Friends #MusicBusiness #AmazingGrace #GodFirst

Written by Àrèmúorin

#MercyfulGrace #Cults #76theMovie

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Àrèmúorin – Anthony Everest is a Jazz, Soul-R&B Multi Award Winning Indie Singer-Songwriter, Author, Producer. No1, 49+ Weeks, Jazz Charts.

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