CHARACTER ASSASSINATION ..’ – #In14Ways #ArtOfWar #MercyfulGrace

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One mistake you should never make is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn’t wronged you.
Hear this: “ *We must avoid taking hasty conclusion because of what others are saying about someone else*”.

What people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more directly: The things you say about others, says a lot about you! I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.

*Character assassination* is a pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere. You find it in families, churches, organizations, work places, etc.

Wikipedia defines Character assassination as the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual.

The Merriam-Webster defines it as the slandering of a person usually with the intention of destroying public confidence in that person.

Athi Murugan defines “Character Assassination” as the act of lowering one’s character in a bid to ruin the character of others.

There are people that take maximum delight in ruining other’s reputation. These set of people have what I will like to call ‘Destructive Tendencies’. They oil their own ego by pulling other people down. PhD(pull him down).

False allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. When people can’t kill your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. There are some people that your spirit will always irritate their demons! Once they realize hating isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about you. People are assassinated once but ‘Character Assassination’ kills daily! Character assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.

Someone once said, “A friend of my enemy is my enemy.” One of the things that hinders us from living a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing past bias and sentiments into present relationships. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends on intentions and contributions. God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!

*7 critical ‘DON’Ts’ that you really need to guard yourself against.*
Refusing to getting trapped in them will help you live a more productive, fulfilling and unbiased life. They are:

1. *Don’t conclude about people because of what others say about them:* Never draw up conclusions based on what others tell you about someone. It is a lack of social intelligence that makes people draw conclusions on others based on what other people say about them. I know you’ve heard about emotional and financial intelligence, but there is something called social intelligence. This is the kind of intelligence that keeps you sane even when others are trying to pollute your mind against someone else until you have thoroughly confirmed the veracity of the claims before you. Judges are trained to have this kind of intelligence in order to avoid biased judgments.

*2. Don’t inherit other people’s enemy:* It is total lack of education and enlightenment when you automatically make your friend’s enemies your own. Don’t make people your enemies just because they are not in good terms with your friends.

*3. Don’t use your children as weapons of war:*
God can use your enemies to bless your children! The Bible says that your children are for signs and wonders. Stop using them to fight those you don’t like. Your children will need to discern their enemies for themselves; never use your parental influence to make your children hate others. You may often need to guard them with their choice of friends but never plant the seed of discord in the heart of your children against someone else.

*4. Don’t gang up with others to hate someone:* Don’t join the majority to hate someone – you may realize that the person has no offence. Someone said, “If you don’t see it with your own eyes, or hear it with your own ears. Don’t invent it with your small mind and share it with your big mouth”. Never join the multitude to hate someone else.

*5. Don’t be used as weapon in other people’s battle:* It is not every battle that you must involve yourself in. Refuse to be used as weapons in other people’s battle. When people fight dirty, refuse to take sides. Observe deeply before concluding finally.

*6. Don’t hate people just because they don’t behave like you:* That someone is not your tribe doesn’t make them your enemy. It is a waste of education if the only people you like are those that are like you. The greatest proof of our education is in how we respond to people whose opinions are different from ours. People who think their opinions are superior to others are most prone to overestimating their relevant knowledge and ignoring chances to learn more.
The people who don’t think like you are your greatest source of enlightenment. It is normally people that are not like us that help us grow the most. Companies that had maximized growth are really those that value diversity and inclusion.

*7. Don’t judge people until you know the whole story: Someone once said,* “Beware of the half-truth. You may have gotten hold of the wrong half”. Don’t judge other people’s choices without understanding their reasons.
If people say something bad about you or judge you as if they know you, don’t easily get affected. Remember this, *dogs bark if they don’t know the person.* People who are intimidated by you talk about you with hopes that others won’t find you so appealing.

Stay away from people who talk bad about others daily; these kind of people carry a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious. The real problem is not that they are unhappy about others, but they are unhappy with themselves.

Stop the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try and discuss it with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said, “Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”. Stop spreading false information and rumours about others.

Rumours are carried by haters, spread by fools and accepted by idiots! Stop creating walls of contention, rather help build bridges of understanding among people. May God help bless 🌍 us all. Amen

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Don’t forget God is #magic❤👈🏿 ..’ #Wisdom #GodFirst #MercyfulGrace

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I was meditating on this message this morning – re listening to the end. It dawned on me what God told me 20 years ago, or so. Then, I was building my craft, and researching ..’

Used to go into the world of circular music and entertainment, incognito, but not to engage them. Then one day, I decided to go out and be a circular singer. I remember, God expressively filing me up warmly, not to. I argued and justified that they need to be blessed too.

Lets just say do not throw pearls at swines is a great come back scripture for my ignorance.

Saboteurs came like friends and dug in their nails deep. Till today, I share the nursed painful lessons of learning that obedience is better than sacrifice.

As my *cynicism* yields with age I never let go the faith. One thing I know is when narcissists can no longer manipulate you, you become their enemy. Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are ..’ ❤👈🏿

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Harrassment and Cyber #Bullying ..’ – #In14Ways #MercyfulGrace #SundayConfessions

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Need Help. Someone Just Deleted All my recommendations on #linkedIn. This must stop. They do it across my social media.

Furthermore, they have done just about anythng evil, on all my social media accounts, blocking, hacking, deleting messages; fans, followers and what not.

You wonder what the heck is going on. Why all this evil? We are only living our normal lives.

My moments are not according to their time strecthing nor bending. I belong to the most high.

So they should just leave me the fcuk alone. Not interested in luciferianism.

I’m a perfect 7. They have been at this oppression for the past 2 decades. And I have been just abour tolerant as much as I can.

This is not for the faint hearted. I overstand! If I told you, half of it – some of you would lose your minds. I know that part first hand cuz I have been there one too many a time.

They will gaslight the hell out of you and even use a plant like you to do it in your own close knit community.

God does not forget. He does not sleep. He is a pious judge who takes avengance utterly.

In Africa we say, “the Assasination of Ones Character does not stop God’s work. If you assasinate my credibility, God❤👈🏿 will restore me” ..’

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Bad Marriage For Life #Indeed😰 ..’ #In14Ways #BadMarriageForLife #MercyfulGrace

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2 is a company. 3 is a crowd. Rest in peace Will Smith and Jada Pinketh Smith’s bad marraige. That T-Shirt don’t fit no more. No mamm. No thanks. Rebuked in the mighty name of Yeshua. Amen ..’ 🧘🏿‍♂️✍🏿

Was minding my own business about this red table talk between the couple but it was everywhere. So I took an interest and it bothered me. Not their arrangement, but the consequence.

Some fans were saying it’s a 4 year old story just revealed, that they are happy now, and it’s none of our business.

True. But, they are also massive public figures on a huge world stage with some social responsibility.

We ride together. We die together. Bad marriage for life ..’ – Will & Jada Pinketh Smith

For me ooo, in my humble opinion, as a besotted fan; who buys into their brand, inspirationally. I do not want to catch a demon.

That is a negative speech, which was not thought through. I get the humour, but it is very unwise. Not good.

Not good for my soul as much as I adore them. And, I am not the only one who picked it up.

We ride together. We die together. Bad marriage for life ..’ – Will & Jada Pinketh Smith

Domestic violence rose by 20 percent during lock down, according to the UN.

There are various forms of domestic abuse. It is verbal and non verbal, too. There is self abuse too. I work in this field.

The tongue is very powerful. You are as you say you are ..’ Sending them all my love❤👈🏿 ..’

This may be the entanglement. Most folks will be. Now you hopefully understand. I do.

Jada Pinket Smith’s story opened me up to something new about rage.

Like her rage needing and wanting healing, we all need God, in these times. In these perilious times, death is cheap. Life #moments ..’ – #In14Ways

Everyone is hurting for something. I hope we can be all be human again. May the rage find healing inside all of us

Transformation not condemnation.

She said about rage hiding her deep sorrow, once. This speaks to my soul. We all know sorrow. Hope healing has begun all round. No one should be in pain. Let love lead the way. I pray for forgiveness and restoration too. Amen ..’

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You can see whatever you want to see depending on where you want to see it from. That’s why the earth is spinning ..’

Hope for peace. Prayers for love. Sanctuaries of Grace. Abound daily in our hearts. Amen !!!

When you are privileged to witness the duality of evil in a human, be thankful, rejoice & run. Make no excuses for them. I used to.

My two new favourite words. Rage & Healing. Thanks to Jada Pinket Smith. Who would have thought. The mystery of life working in different introspection. Transformation not condemnation ..

Now I understand❤👈🏿. I think it’s easy to fictitiously walk in someone else’s shoes. We all have pain. It makes us all #human ..’ – #In14Ways

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God is #real ..’ – #In14Ways #SundayConfessions #MercyfulGrace #AnthonyEverest

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God is real and he prepares us for greater and the greatest battles.

I hated been androgynous for cultural and religious reasons. I was also unaware till I was in my 30’s. Was teased, bullied and misunderstood.

So I pretended I was invisible and hid my feelings by being a door mat for acceptance.

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It lowered my self esteem, as I became less invisible due to bad religion and peer pressure.

Although, my androgyny was my strength and grace all along. It was the God in me. The force within. The image of God he prepeared for greater.

Now I embrace my uniqueness. My strength. My Power. My love. My calling. My greater that was waiting all along. The real me❤👈🏿.

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Toxic #Masculinity ..’ – #In14Ways #Boxing #MercyfulGrace

Erhhh🤣. Had no idea boxing was this exciting ..’

Toxic masculinity is thus defined by adherence to traditional male gender roles that consequently stigmatize and limit the emotions boys and men may comfortably express while elevating other emotions such as anger.

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Happy Easter: Overture of Gratitudes To Be Alive ..’ – #In14Ways #StayHome #HappyEaster #Covid19

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Happy Easter: God first. A grateful musical #throwback before the lockdown. Thank you Jesus for the cross.

Thou, evil abounds, tirelessly. Hidden in plain sight. Yet, we have overcome, mightily. The hope of love is not the hope of fools, or the hope of fear.

Where ever God is performing miracles, he will worry about all the obstacles. So, you worrying: is a waste of your, fragile mind ..’

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Today, was written; to humour fools. How? We take God for granted. So, I give God my best – today, that I may live another day, again.

“Thank you Oh #God for every day and night’s blessing over us. I am #grateful and #content.

I’ve everything I need within. I am an ambundance of inspiration.

A fountain of love, #joy, #peace and #happiness. My friends are plenty and they are true ..’ #Amen”.

You led companies and came to me in dreams. Even, the greater; deity, speaks, to me at times, facelessly ..’

Very #True 💕👐🏿👏🏿✍🏿 ..’ – #14Ways

#HappyEaster #StayHome

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CEO’s of Indomine, Olam, Tolarama, Medreich packing raw food items for two weeks. #In14Ways #Covid19 #MercyfulGrace

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God keep us safe from plagues, perils or storms ..’ ✍🏿🙏🏿

Materialism and it’s sorts are fading faster than time. People are dying in a breath of breathlessness.

But, when mercy meets grace, what an effort, to applaud in Lagos, Nigeria.

INDIAN CEO’s (Md of Medreich, group MD of Stallion, Tolarams MD ie Indomine, MD of Olam, etc etc) task themselves, converging at their VI office for the past two weeks, packing raw food items for the less privileged.

Reportedly, over 250 bags of rice has been packed by these CEOs and another one is being off-loaded now, distributing all over Lagos!

May the Good Lord bless them abundantly ..’ ✍🏿🙏🏾

We have also created a “Healing Gospel Music playlist”. It’s updated frequently. Feel free to share ..’

Prayers are saving graces right now. Take it, seriously. Turn to to it. My folks are #praying ..’ – #In14Ways

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Faith Is A #Mountain ..’ – #In14Ways #Covid19 #AnthonyEverest

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Faith is a mountain you can not climb even if you try to tumble it down. I believe. That’s why I recieve. A bountiful truck load of it. They call it supernatural #blessings ..’ – #In14Ways

A beautiful effort to spread love by my dear friends in the gospel community ..’ ✍🏿🙏🏿

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Some of you think using others by advantage is a blessing. No, it’s a curse, for you to take, where you did not toil. Wait for it. The tongue is very powerful.

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I have said it before, and I will say it again. This too; shall pass. It always does ..’

There’s something in the wind. In the air, and in the sea, and it brings news to me. From distant oceans, waves of afar; storms.

Cloudy days where sunlight once shone. Deemed by the moon in it’s jealous sky. Away, beyond mind and games – some one plays.

To you be warned – cause you will fall, by your own sword and treacherous witchery. Be advised, cuz there is light, in this Love filled with peace.

Love is kind and love is light. Mine is peace kept within. Wisdom shall prevail and darkness shall fail, cause there’s no room for it, within, that’s not beautiful, inside and out!

The Valley of Slaughter (Previously known as Topeth) – Near Italy.

“Where is Topheth?” You will get the google map location, closely enough, to Italy, (South Jerusalem), where currently dead bodies are being buried and they are facing shortage of space due to huge number of dead bodies now from the corona virus.

Turn your Bible and see the prophesy about this written in Bc 600 years by Prophet Jeremiah. JEREMIAH 7 v 32.

“Therefore, behold, the days come, said the Lord, that it shall no more be called Topheth, nor the valley of the son of Hinnom, but the valley of slaughter: for they shall bury in Topheth, till there be no place.

Read the whole chapter if you please .. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

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Doctors are #hoarding #medications …’ – #In14Ways #Covid19 #MercyfulGrace

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Doctors are hoarding medications touted as possible coronavirus treatments by writing prescriptions for themselves and family members, according to pharmacy boards in states across the country …’ ”

According to New York times this was reported. This is a ghastly move which we hope does not get repeated globally.

This is unethical, many feel as we all need the sanctuary of drugs to keep us alive in the case of the worst feared amongst old stories resurfacing like Madison, Georgia.

This should be stopped everywhere for humanities sake. Everyone is vulnerable.

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Meanwhile, stars like Angela Joli & Kendall Jenner donated $1M dollars each to the Covid-19 cause, while Rhianna’s foundation donation, donated a waping $5M ..’

Challenging times, but help is on the way. More on some of the breaking stories here.

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